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Have you ever met someone whose inner beauty far surpassed their outward appearance? Or encountered a person whose conventional attractiveness was overshadowed by a closed-off demeanour? These experiences reveal a profound truth: true beauty comes from within, and Fashion Psychology says how we perceive ourselves profoundly influences how others see us. 

From Insecurity to Confidence

I used to feel insecure about my height, especially when standing beside a shorter friend. This insecurity led to a hunched posture, visibly reflecting my self-doubt. For years, I felt out of place both physically and emotionally. However, as I began to embrace my height and worked on improving my posture, the change was not just physical—it transformed my self-perception. This shift in how I viewed myself allowed my confidence to flourish. With newfound self-assurance, I  discovered my strength in building relationships and became a confident spokesperson, inspiring others through public speaking. 

Daryl Bem’s Self-Perception Theory  was instrumental in this transformation. It taught me that our self-beliefs shape how others perceive us. My journey illustrated that confidence transcends physical appearance. Embracing my uniqueness enabled my authenticity to shine, demonstrating that true beauty comes from within and fosters genuine self-assurance

They don't matter. You matter.

In today’s world, where social media often bombards us with judgments about appearances, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. A study points out that our self-view is frequently influenced by others’ opinions, both intentional and unintentional, which can significantly impact our self-esteem.

Despite external judgments, remember: that not everyone will recognize your value, but what truly matters is how you perceive yourself. Building confidence in your appearance and self-expression is crucial to feeling amazing. As Daryl Bem’s theory suggests, our beliefs about ourselves shape how others see us. By embracing your uniqueness and staying true to yourself, you can radiate true beauty from within.

The importance of authenticity

Understanding that true beauty comes from within helps us handle external judgments with  confidence. By embracing our uniqueness, we naturally align with the idea of being true to  ourselves. True beauty starts with confidence—it’s not just about looks but how you feel inside. Confidence naturally draws others in and transforms how we are perceived. 

Consider these inspiring figures:

They challenge conventional beauty standards and demonstrate that confidence can redefine how others see us. Your choices, from clothing to communication, reflect your inner beauty. Embrace your uniqueness, and let your confidence shine. 

DRESS WELL, PERFORM MORE

Don’t let external opinions dictate your style—choose outfits that reflect your true self and enhance  your confidence. Your appearance can significantly impact your mood and behavior. This concept,  known as Enclothed Cognition, explores how clothing affects our psychological state and  performance. 

Fashion Psychology research by Hajo Adam and Adam D. Galinsky, shows that clothing influences performance and self-perception. In their study, participants wearing a doctor’s coat, which is associated with cognitive ability, performed better on attention-related tasks compared to those in a painter’s coat, which is linked to creativity. 

This research underscores that dressing in a way that aligns with your self-image boosts confidence and improves interactions. By choosing outfits that make you feel authentic, you naturally project confidence, enhance self-esteem, and attract positivity.

Cherish your individuality and trust in your inner strength. When you embrace your true self, you radiate an authentic charm that captivates and inspires others. Confidence isn’t just about appearance; it’s about how you perceive and present yourself. Let your confidence guide you,  transforming your presence into a powerful force that leaves a lasting impression wherever you go. 

Shafira Rizkifauzia

Author Shafira Rizkifauzia

Shafira Rizkifauzia, an Indonesian mother of two with a Bachelor’s in Psychology. She enjoys reading webtoons and crafting words, and she creates micro-articles on Instagram about mental health and parenting. Currently, she is exploring the Virtual Assistant world to support mental health clinic entrepreneurs with social media management and content writing.

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